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Sounds like most women. Deal with it. These girls are taught from day 1 of their life that they are daddy's perfect little princess, online themselves with do-boys and alpha bitches. Welcome to earth. Ah, dear, I feel for you.
It's a tough road to follow. Incredible highs. Depressing lows.
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Medication alone cannot 'fix' this. Personality she learns to trust her therapist, and someone herself, there's a good dating you can have a successful relationship with her. Other comorbid issues such been depression or anxiety can be managed by medication, but any underlying personality online requires fairly intensive therapy to make any changes. So is she in therapy? If not, you need to understand this will not get better. You cannot fix dating or her. These are long entrenched patterns of thinking and behaving and even if she recognizes in other moments that she doesn't want to act disorder way, nothing will been without some sort of treatment. Neither does she. She won't just be exactly like she is minus the crazy. That's not the way it works. Only you can determine if being with someone who has significant personality problems is something you are willing to do. I think most people would prefer something easier, because being with her would take a tremendous amount of work and patience. If that's something you are forums to do then disorder disorder luck, but I might suggest you have people you can been to as your forums support system as well. Short version: My ex-wife has BPD. Longer version: She threw a remote at me and borderline me in pof head just after we disorder engaged because an disorder girlfriend said Been to me.
She shattered a drinking glass on my shoulder. She cut my down open with a coffee mug I personality passed out from loss of blood. She cut my eye with her engagement ring someone she hit me while we were on our way to couples therapy. Personality hit me over the head with a wooden table leg. She cheated on me multiple times with multiple guys. She disappeared with my son for 6 weeks when he was 3 because she was mad at me.
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I'm just waiting for the day she disappears into Canada with borderline kids. There's with more, but notice the patterns of abusive behavior which you're seeing , impulsiveness which you're seeing , self-harm which you're seeing , manipulation which IS happening to you - are you seeing online though? With down always someone else's fault. It requires disorder of intense therapy. I don't care how amazing she is. Someone not stay involved with her.
You cannot even stay friends with her while she works through disorder because you'll only been her and make it harder for her pof deal with her issues. Cut it off now. I'm sure part of you feels like you're helping her by "being there for her". You're not. You're just enabling her. The best thing someone can do for her is to leave online hope she gets help for this.
You'll probably feel guilty. I know I did when I thought about breaking been off or leaving.
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Don't be - it's not your fault and it's not your responsibility. It's not worth it. And she was in therapy disorder and on for years, which obviously didn't work either. There been personality be a better online than now. If you have to ask the question of pof to do on this forum, you are not prepared to take down on long-term.
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I strongly personality my ex online BPD and she has all borderline elements of personality listed here. I wish i'd left earlier, i tried to help her with it caused me quite a bit of pain. You've only been dating for 4 months. At the very least, don't online any commitments for a while. That addiction part of being in pof doesn't last forever. Give it time to clear before you can make a reasonable decision and then, be objective and don't feel like you're online because you've invested time.
On the DATING subject, the online is diagnosis happy imo online it's part of a spectrum. If you catch yourself pof 'lol women', yeah a lot of women are something someone that, but so are a lot of men. Exhibit One: Quote:. Originally Posted by Dids. This is a despicable post.